Unconditional Love is Not Romantic.

I learned something: if you want a lover (and you’re under no obligation there), don’t settle for less than someone who understands and can provide your version of love. Here are some thoughts on mine. Unconditional Love is Not Romantic. Because compulsory devotion is not attractive. Nobody should idealize the notion of automatic dedication. If […]

The Grinders

We worked so hard to get here, climbed so high, ran so long, reached so far.  Finally, we settle into comfortable molds.  Everything’s going to be fine at last.  We can rest. But something is wrong.  We don’t quite fit into the spaces.  There are parts of us hanging out over the sides. I look […]